EP #86: Leading Yourself with Eric Winters
Leading by example is not a cliché. What is misunderstood is that it starts within. We actually fear ourselves because we are accustomed to being distracted. The world is filled with messages that tell us that we are not enough and so we believe it’s true. It’s not.
Eric Winters is a true motivational leader. He coaches people and to lead themselves to make their teams better. It’s an interesting dichotomy because it started within but its benefits are without. He believes that it is a true skill that can be trained. Everyone has the potential to practice autonomy while also accepting the input of the people around them. This is the ultimate diversity of thought and best way to lead.
What You'll Learn In Today's Episode:
Why culture is toxic
How to choose with intention
How to choose values
The biggest regret that dying people have
How others expect the wrong things of us
How to offer a life that is true to yourself
How to develop courage
How to say no to inappropriate actions
How to determine your true north
The importance of a mission statement
How to learn conversation skills
Why autonomy is important
How to skillfully invite the contributions of others
Ideas Worth Sharing:
“It all begins with taking care of ourself.” - Eric Winters
“First we need to inspire ourselves…then we’re in much better place to do it for others.” - Eric Winters
“We’re all surrounded by culture that drip feeds us toxic values.” - Eric Winters
“How can we develop courage through emotional intelligent ways?” - Eric Winters
“Paragraphs of text don’t inspire.” - Eric Winters
“Begin with the end in mind.” - Eric Winters
“You cannot write a book but you can write an ugly first draft of the next sentence.” - Eric Winters
“If you can’t identify what’s most important to you how can you identify what’s important to your organization.” - Bob DePasquale
“When you’re a busy leader you can easily lose track of good ideas.” - Bob DePasquale
“I want to celebrate with the people around me. It’s better for the psyche.” - Bob DePasquale
Resources In Today's Episode:
Count.Life
Bob’s Book - Personal Finance in a Public World
This week’s E-Impact Blog Entry
Episodes Referenced:
